Nigerian Men Are Not Romantic ’ - Singer Simi
Says.
Singer Simi, has declared that Nigerian men
are not romantic. The singer who has been
rumoured to have dated singers, Adekunle
Gold and Falz at some point said this in a
recent interview.
Speaking in a recent interview, she said;
“I don’t believe Nigerian men are
romantic. I think Nigerian men
do not think they have to be
romantic. I am not saying this to
bash men but I think no one
pushes Nigerian men to fight for
anything so they have this sense
of entitlement.
I was watching a Nigerian movie
one day and there was this
unfaithful Nigerian man who left
his wife for another woman. At
the end of the day, the other
woman left him and he retraced
his steps to his initial wife.
The
lady’s mother actually told her
to kneel in front of the man and
that bothered me a lot even
though I knew it was a movie.
That is the way things are.
“A lot of men grow up in this
country feeling entitled to
certain things and they believe
that they don’t have to work for
anything.
This has been the case
for generations and a lot of our
mothers were unhappy because
the society expected them to stay
in the relationship.
I am not saying it is the right
thing for people to leave their
relationships but a man needs to
fight for what he wants so he can
value it. I think the problem is
because a lot of
Nigerian men feel self-entitled
and I blame our culture and our
mothers. Most mothers are the
problem because when something
happens, they are quick to advise
the daughter and wives, they
don’t tell the men that their
actions are wrong.
So if a man
feels that he does not have to
fight to keep the relationship, he
would not.”
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